PART ONE
1. Know how to make her smile when she's down.
2. When a girl says she's sad, but she isn't crying, it means she's crying in her heart.
3. A girl can't find anything to hate about the guy she loves.
4. Girls love it when a guy she likes come up behind her, put his arms around her, squeezes her tightly against his chest, and whisper softly in her ear.
5. If a girl loves a guy, he will always be on her mind. [more like 24/7]
6. A girl likes to hear compliments, but usually doesn't know how to react to them.
7. A simple hi can brighten a girl's day.
8. Keep in mind to be happy in front of her. She'll think you're not having fun.
(we wouldn't want you to be sad)
9. Try to make her laugh; it will come in handy when you don't have anything to talk about. (ALWAYS)
10. Girls like it when you play with their hair.
11. Call for no reason.
12. Be patient when she takes forever to get ready. (PLEASE!)
13. Dance with her even if you feel stupid.
14. When a particular guy flirts with a girl very often, a girl would start thinking the guy likes her.
15. Being too serious can turn a girl off.
16. Don't try to guess a girl's feelings. Ask her.
17. Plan romantic date full of cheesy things; a girl loves to feel special.
18. Always give her a peck on the cheek when you depart from each other, even when friends are watching.
19. Trust each other. If you don't, just end it right now before trouble starts.
20. Take her everywhere you go with your friends. If she can't come, say you will miss her. Don't invite anyone else.
21. Keep your promises; a girl remembers everything the guy she loves tells her.
22. Keep a calendar. Remember her birthday and your anniversary.
23. If you love her, tell her once in a while.
24. Let her fall asleep on you.
25. Don't let your friends talk to her too much. They'll steal her away from you.
26. When you ask a girl what's wrong she'll never tell you the whole thing, maybe nothing at all.
27. Hugs are the best medicine.
28. Girls hate it when a guy leaves her to do something, but she will understand because she loves you.
29. Tell her she looks great even if she doesn't.
30. Hearing the words I love you is a great reassurance to a girl, that she is beautiful.
31. Smile a lot.
32. Buy her something once in a while.
33. Make a big deal when you get to see her, even if you're embarrassed.
34. Always ring the doorbell.
35. Kisses on the neck make a girl tingle.
36. Leave her little messages that she can read later when you're not around.
37. Hold her during a movie.
38. Appreciate her.
39. When she falls asleep and her hair is in her face, tuck it behind her ear for her.
40. When girls go to the restroom together, they're gossiping about you.
41. Be first and last to wish her a happy birthday.
42. Never tell a girl she's useless in any way.
43. When you play games always let her win.
44. It's OK to give her a peck on the cheek or the forehead when she's sleeping.
45. When a girl goes out of her way to see you, make it worth it.
46. Love means devotion, caring, and happiness to a girl, in that order.
47. Stick up for her but still be respectful of her independence.
48. Be playful.
49. Tell the truth. Don't try to impress her, she loves you for you.
50. Girls want nothing more than to feel loved.
PART TWO
1. When you compliment us, we aren't sure how to accept the compliment without leading you on or reject the compliment without hurting you.
2. We like it when you say we're beautiful or pretty, NOT hot or sexy! We're not whores (usually).
3. We like you to be specific in your compliments (don't just say we're beautiful, say you look beautiful because those earrings bring out your eyes, etc.)
4. WE HATE BEING LED ON! If you think it's bad being led on by a girl, try being led on by a guy.
5. We like it when guys are willing to have an actual relationship, not just a one-night stand. Most girls don't like pimps or players, just guys who like ONE girl only.
6. But don't be obsessive. Major turn-off.
7. Please put your ego aside in important situations. We love it when you stand up for us, but not when you stand up against us.
8. Call sometimes, just to say hi, not for a certain reason. When we see your number on caller ID, our heart always skips a beat.
9. If we're PMSing, listen to whatever we have to say and agree, no matter what. Don't give advice, just give chocolate.
10. Don't talk about the way other girls look.
11. Actually, don't really talk about other girls in general, unless we're all friends. If I don't know her, I don't want to hear about her.
12. BE HONEST!
13. Don't ONLY tell us what we want to hear. We HATE that.
14. At sleepovers, if you wonder what we talk about, quit worrying. It really is only you.
15. If you catch us staring, it is most likely because we're spacing out, not because we really stare at you. Unless we smile when you notice. Then you either look really hot, or we like you.
16. We love a guy who will cook for us.
17. We like it when you hold us when we're crying. It's good to feel loved and safe.
18. If you're ever unsure about something, just go for it. Trust us, we'll let you know if you made a mistake.
19. If you like us, ask us out!!!! We hate waiting.
HATE IT.
20. We CANNOT read minds. The one thing all girls will say is that we have no idea what you are thinking, no matter how confident we seem.
21. Don't go to our friends to talk about us. Come straight to us.
22. If a girl's BFF asks you if you like that girl, then she likes you. Say you want to talk to the girl about it, then actually talk to her.
23. Don't be a player. We hate that.
24. Don't tell us you love us unless you are positive you mean it. If we don't say it back, it's just that we really want to mean it when we say it. Don't say it right away, then it shows lack of commitment.
25. We like our hands to be held and our waists to be touched.
26. Waist, not butt. Hands, not boobs. Held, not fondled.
27. Try to look nice as much as possible. Not dressed up, but if you look like you just rolled out of bed, it can be a turn-off.
28. WE LOVE WHEN YOU SMELL GOOD! Wear cologne! (but not too much!!!!! We don't want to choke on your smell when you pass us in the hallway!)
29. We like you to kiss our hand and cheeks and forehead (esp. forehead!!), not just shove your tongue down our throats. We do like to breath.
30. We like it when you're tender, but don't lose your masculinity.
31. Do chivalrous things when we least expect it (ex. holding doors for us).
32. Be a guy! We like sensitivity, but we don't want another girlfriend. We might mistake you for being gay. Seriously.
33. As surprising as it may be, while guys might actually look at personality, the first thing girls look at tends to be looks. We're not going to see you and think, 'I wonder what his personality is like!'. Terrible, but true.
34. Be confident, but not piggish. You're not all that, but we don't want you to be self-conscious.
35. We like to see you get hurt. If you get hurt, don't feel afraid to show that your in pain. It's kind of cute (in moderation).
36. Be our knight in shining armor. Treat us like a princess, but be the decision maker in the relationship.
37. We like it when you ask us what we're ok with physically, but don't talk about it all the time.
38. We LOVE it when you get nervous around us. It's adorable! Don't think you have to be Mr. Cool Guy all the time.
39. Don't play hard to get.
40. If you don't call us, then we will spend hours thinking about why you never called, and we will waste a lot of time thinking about it, eventually coming to the conclusion that we don't like you anymore.
41. We lost interest quickly if you lead us on but never take action.
42. We might seem to flirt a lot, but a girl always thinks about the one guy she really likes right before she falls asleep.
43. When a girl likes a guy, she subconsciously gives him a song that makes her think of him every time she hears it.
44. If guys do the same as girls do in #43, tell what song reminds you of her.
45. In a conversation, LOOK AT HER FACE NOT HER BOOBS! They're just lumps of fat! They're not that hot!!!!!!!!!!
46. Butts are flab!
Okay, so tell me what you think? :) Now guys! You know what to do. *winks*
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